Be Clear About What You Want

by BJ on January 22, 2015

I wanted to write this post to help you ultimately go out there and build your dream business online…whatever that may be…

Quick story – I tried A LOT of things online…clickbank, creating my own products, ebook publishing, membership sites, software, network marketing, affiliate marketing, services, etc…

…and I have come to the conclusion that there is ONE thing that I truly fulfills me more than anything else…it's to create my own information product business that gives me the lifestyle that I want and also impacts people in a positive way (in kind of a more personal way since I'm the one doing the teaching through the products as opposed to selling just other people's training alone).

(and I actually stepped away from creating my own infoproducts for awhile…there were some good reasons…and during that time, I really got deep into the business opportunity world and am still in it…but over the last several months, I have been working on creating my own information products once again, have even launched Video Commissions which I am very proud of and it really fulfills me more than anything than I've done in terms of internet marketing over the years, and I'm really ready to get back into creating more and more products of my own starting this year.)

Anyways…throughout my own experiences of trying out MANY kind of things (due to my own shiny object syndrome), I realize that sometimes…in fat, MANY TIMES, I have to FIGHT against the temptation to check out other shiny objects out there…there are bunch of new bizopps, programs, launches, and things that are popping up all the time.

Whenever I say yes to those, I realize I was also saying NO to my own dreams…

…and I don't know if you've followed me before but I have joined SO many programs before due to me not being 100% clear with my own dreams in the past.

But when I take a step back and started to become more and more clear with my own dreams (to create my own information product empire), then it became clear on what decisions to make…

…having said that, I wanted to share with you the same important lesson that I am learning now to ultimately help you to be CLEAR about your own dreams as well…

One of the first steps to truly succeeding online is to be CLEAR about what you want.

Once you are clear about what you want, then you can go figure out the steps that you need to take to achieve your ultimate goal.

…so getting back to my point…

…sometimes, you have to learn to say NO to many shiny objects that are screaming at you on the internet…to give yourself space to say YES to your own dreams…and dream business online…

Listen…

…there are TONS of distractions online…you know the facebook newsfeeds, the constant emails from 99% of marketers out there who are just pushing and pitching you day after day…

You need to learn to say NO to many things out there…

if that includes me, then so be it…

…but here's my advice on how to say no to many things…so you can have space to say YES to your own DREAMS…

Always ask yourself “Do I see myself doing this for the LONG RUN?”

If the answer is not an ABSOLUTE YES, then don't do it…

– That means, unsubscribe from distracting emails that come into your primary email…
– That means, NOT buying courses or programs if it's not the type of marketing that resonates with you…
– That means NOT going to events if it is taking time away from your TRUE dream business that YOU truly want to do in the LONG RUN…
– That means standing up for yourself and saying NO to people…to ultimately say YES to your OWN dreams…

and that's how you are going to be able to work on those important baby steps to ultimately go out there and build your dream business online…

Your dream business can be anything…

It can be creating information products…
It can be doing only affiliate marketing…
It can be doing network marketing…
It can be selling stuff on Amazon and eBay…
It can be being doing local businesses…

It can be anything…

…but ONE valuable lesson I learned (through my OWN experiences) is that you need to know WHAT is your ULTIMATE dream business online…

What do you see yourself doing for the long run…

What do you WANT to do for the LONG RUN?

What kind of business do you WANT to build and see it grow to ultimately live the life that you want and also impact the world in a positive way?

…Whatever that is, write it down clearly on your own journal (or a piece of paper) and CONSTANTLY remind yourself what your dream business is…

When you are 100% clear with your OWN dream business, then you know WHEN to say yes or no when tons of opportunities come across your face like we experience every single day…in this information overload world…

So that's my advice for you…

Be CLEAR with your dreams…

…and protect yourself…meaning just becomes a new shiny object came about, don't just jump into it…

First ask yourself “Does this align with my ultimate dream business?”

If it does, then you can consider checking it out.
If not, then turn off the distractions…

…and FOCUS on you building yourself and your DREAM business one step at a time…

Hope that gives you some insights on how to make this year the year that turns things around for you.

I know you get TONS of emails from everywhere…

…and there can be distractions to you all the time.

Whenever you find yourself distracted (or unfulfilled which can be a sign that what you are doing is NOT your dream), then take a step back and ask yourself again…

“Do I see myself doing this for the long run?” (to make BETTER decisions to ultimately help you build, grow, and succeed in your ULTIMATE dream business in the future).

…And if this type of message resonates with you, then I suggest to at least get on my FREE NEWSLETTER where you discover one of my FAVORITE strategies to drive more traffic online. And it can be relevant to you if you are interested in getting more traffic and sales online for whatever type of business that you want to build in your future.

So until then, get CLEAR with what your ultimate business is…(NOT based on what other people want…but what YOU want in your own life and your own dreams)…

…after you get clear, then making the RIGHT decisions (whether to buy a program, or go to an event, or get into a coaching program, etc) will be easier and you will make BETTER DECISIONS to ultimately achieve what you TRULY want to achieve in your life.

Thanks for reading and I'll talk to you soon,
BJ

PS…If you want to check out my latest training on how to get more traffic and sales online using my MOST powerful traffic strategy (from doing internet marketing full time for 8 years), then click here.

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Nikola January 26, 2015 at 2:24 am

Hey BJ excellent article really great advice thanks!

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BJ February 1, 2015 at 11:21 am

Appreciate your words Nikola. Thanks for reading.

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